The Beautiful young actress has opened up on why she finds it difficult to enjoy sex with her beloved husband when they newly got married.
According to Padita “I was raped at 15. We were attacked by armed robbers in the house and I got raped. That was my first experience and it was horrible. I had no therapy. Nobody talked to me or talked to me through it. I just lived with it and dealt with it myself. I didn’t know how to deal with. I just carried on with life from that point. My sex life was messed up until I got married. Before I got married, I told my would-be husband the challenge I had. He said there was no problem and he would walk me through it.”
Such a terrible experience with the armed robbers, sex would definitely be something she would struggle very hard to enjoy.
She says, even thou from the beginning her husband was okay with it but it got to time were she realize he started feeling frustrated because sex with her became very boring.
She decided to reach out for help before she loses her soulmate
“So one day, out of frustration, I reached out to a woman who sold food items not too far from where I lived back then. I started telling her my frustrations with sex. She told me she was once like that before and told me the simple things she did. She told me that whenever she was having sex, she would begin to moan and give the husband the impression that she was enjoying it. Whatever he does to her, she would heighten it. In the beginning, she was just acting it up but after a while, she realized that she was beginning to feel the things she was acting.
She said “What I picked from that was that words are powerful. When she started saying those words, she didn’t mean them; she was just saying those things for him to enjoy it. Later, her words became her reality and she started enjoying sex. I learned from her and began to put into practice what she said. At first, it didn’t look like it was working but I kept on doing it and the story is different today,”