Adolfo says relationship dies when fused with more lies because it is the only way of breaking trust and trust is the most important thing needed in a relationship.
What is the motive behind lying to your partner if you really cherish, adore, admire and above all decide to be serious with whoever you with. It simply refreshing to feel you are always honest.
Is it that hard to tell them the truth no matter how hard it is.
People start relationships these days on a foundation of lies. They lie about everything including themselves. They lie about their family, educational qualification, job, earning, relationship status, past relationships, etc and yet want someone to trust them with their heart and life.
You don’t lie about how much you earn just to keep a relationship or with the fear that the one you want to be with will leave you when they know the truth. What you are simply saying is that your partner won’t accept the real you, which is a red flag. Lying about your earnings puts more pressure on you. It’s not how much you earn that has the power to keep a relationship but the size of your commitment.
You don’t have to lie about your age just to keep a relationship or to avoid being seen as old. The Success of a relationship goes beyond the age of someone. What keeps the relationship is maturity; how responsible you are to tackle the issues in the relationship.
You don’t need to lie about your past relationship, behavior, number of Exes, children, just to keep a relationship. We all made mistakes in the past, the past does not define us. You need someone who sees you as a gift and is willing to enjoy the present and build a future with you.
A relationship built on lies has no future. It gives birth to betrayal. It doesn’t matter how small the lies are. Lies are lies. You may tell small lies today and make someone get into a relationship with you but it doesn’t end there. You might have to tell more lies in the near future to cover up the old lies told.
Truth they say is bitter but its always better to be told
Adolfo, in conclusion, says, “Lying lips are extremely disgusting to the Lord, But those who deal faithfully are His delight” – Proverbs 12:22 (AMP).